When a woman finds herself in a relationship with Mr Unavailable, that emotionally distant, commitment shy guy, she wonders what she has done wrong or what she needs to do in order to ‘get’ him. She may not realise that she is a Fallback Girl, the person that Mr Unavailable relies or ‘falls back’ on to massage his ego and cater to all of his idiosyncrasies, whilst he contributes little or nothing to the relationship. She is one of an alarming number of women who either fail to recognise the situation until it’s too late or feel that they are stuck in what seems an impossible pattern of relationship behaviour.

Sound familiar?

Have you been the Other Woman?

Long-term relationships that never go anywhere?

Are your relationships filled with ambiguity and drama?

Drawn to relationships with little or no hope of commitment?

Confused by men that blow hot and cold?

Been an accidental booty call or gone from ‘girlfriend’ to screw buddy?

Keep talking about the man he was in the beginning?

Are you hoping that your guy will change?

Can’t break up, won’t break up, either because you can’t let go or he keeps coming back?

Wondering why he doesn’t call, or why he only communicates with you via text or email?

Tired of being with the same man, different package?

Do you believe that it’s only his issues that stand between you and your happiness?

Well don't worry because you are not alone.

It’s time to stop wondering what it is that you’re doing wrong or could do differently and accept that his behaviour is not about you, and you're just enabling it. Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl is your no holds barred guide to understanding the most fickle, ambiguous, egotistical man on earth and the women that love him. This is about empowering you to wake up, build your self-esteem, and aspire to and chase positive, healthy relationships. After previously releasing Book 1, I have decided to put the subsequent parts, all in one book. The chapters on Mr Unavailable have been updated with some more focus on the 'narcissitic tendencies, and you will get to understand the roles that you take that enable his behaviour and keep you trapped in the cycle. I'll give you the why's and the how's and some practical advice and tools to help you lose your attraction to these men and start feeling positive about you.