New affiliate cannot find my program in their Select Merchant menu

That indicates the affiliate has not actually joined your program yet. They just need to log into the E-junkie account they already registered, stay logged in, and then click your sign-up link again. This troubleshooting page for affiliates explains in more detail.

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