maybe there is other payment providers that do take this more serious...
my webiste is near the top of engines, and this happens more then
you think, ive recently got 3 paypal holds because they say they
did not make the order, and it seems to happen more on "unverified"
paypal accounts. paypal fraud happens daily, just like any other type
of fraud, and if he doesnt think so, then he truly is not educated on fraud.